TV Appearance

So, I'm a little late getting this posted, but I was interviewed on a local news program a couple of weeks ago. Enjoy! Go to the link and click on "video". There is some ad first, the clip is after that.

http://kare11.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=133974
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Response/Ability

Response/ability
by Bernard Gunther

the game we play
is let's pretend
and pretend
we're not
pretending

we choose to
forget
who we are
and then forget
that we've
forgotten

who are we really?



the center
that watches
and runs the show
that can choose
which way
it will go

the I AM
consciousness
that powerful
loving perfect
reflection
of the cosmos

but in our attempt
to cope with
early situations
we chose or were
hypnotized into
a passive position

to avoid
punishment
or the loss of love
we chose to deny
our response/ability

pretending that
things just
happened
or that we were
being controlled
taken over

we put ourselves
down
and have become
used to this
masochistic
posture

this weakness

this indecisiveness

but we are
in reality
free
a center
of cosmic energy

your will
is your power

don't pretend
you don't have it

or you won't.
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Since When am I "Pre-Pregnant"?

Last month the Washington Post reported on new federal guidelines which ask all females capable of conception to treat themselves-- and to be treated by the health care system-- as "pre-pregnant", apart from whether they plan to get pregnant anytime soon or not.
In theory, the goal in creating these guidelines was to emphasize the importance of managing risk factors prior to pregnancy and to increase public awareness of the importance of preconception health.

At first glance, these concerns seem valid, as so much vital development occurs between conception and the time a pregnancy is confirmed. Indeed, the notion of preconception care is nothing new. Most of these guidelines are already well known to pregnant women and those seeking to become pregnant.

The problem, however, lies in the fact that they are to be universally applied to women. The very idea that every woman, regardless of her own reproductive plans, is simply a vehicle for birth reinforces unjust stereotypes that women's rights movements have worked so hard to crumble. Have I had "pre-pregnant" stamped across my forehead since puberty and have somehow failed to notice all these years?


The article does state that "experts acknowledge that women with no plans to get pregnant in the near future may resist preconception care", but this feeble concession hardly makes up for the dehumanizing nature of these guidelines.

Authors of the guidelines and supporting organizations (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology, the March of Dimes, and the National Center on Birth Defects and Developmental Disabilities) justify the new guidelines by pointing to the fact that nearly half of all pregnancies in the United States are unplanned and that the U.S. infant mortality rate is higher than those of most other industrialized nations.

While this does raise concern, it seems to me that a more appropriate response is to try to find the answer to the question "WHY?", rather than apply a band-aid to the situation.
Why is it that so many pregnancies in this country are unplanned? Could it be the absence of medically accurate sex education in schools? Perhaps lack of funding for family planning programs is a factor. Do the FDA delays in granting over-the-counter status to emergency contraception play a role?

Is anyone in Washington asking these questions?

While these new guidelines seek to address a very real problem, the method chosen demonstrates once again how this administration is using federal agencies to further its own conservative social agenda while failing to provide any concrete solution for the citizens it supposedly serves. Click here to read more...

Meeting Geena Davis

This past Friday I was had the privilege of attending the welcome dinner and reception of the Minnesota Go Run Political Leadership Training conference. I was there on behalf of Planned Parenthood, where I'm interning this summer in the Public Affairs department. The woman I work with there thought this might be a good first assignment for me. Little did I know the evening would involve a brush with fame too!

This weekend-long leadership training event was sponsored by the White House Project, a national, nonpartisan, not-for-profit organization which aims to advance womens leadership in all communities and sectors, up to the U.S. Presidency (hence the name of the organization.) They strive to support women and the issues that allow women to lead in their own lives and in the world (hence why I was there with Planned Parenthood.)

At first the evening seemed like a typical conference welcome reception: cocktail hour in the lobby, opening remarks from the organizer, a musical performance by a local singer/songwriter, and buffet dinner followed by keynote speaker.

Except the keynote speaker was Geena Davis.

In a way, she is a logical choice. Not just because she is a celebrity and plays the President on TV, but because she embraces the role so whole-heartedly and actively supports the advancement of women into leadership positions. The character she portrays is fictional of course, but it is just real enough to make us take pause. That moment in one of the early episodes, when she walked around the oval office alone for the first time, truly realizing I am the first female president of the United States inspired awe and sent chills down my spine.

Hopefully the moment will come that some woman will have those thoughts in the real oval office, not in the TV set version. Fulfilling that goal is what the White House Project and the weekend training was all about.

The rest of the conversation between Ms. Davis and Marie Wilson, the President of the White House Project, was entertaining and inspirational, covering a whole range of topics, from why women dont run for office, becoming comfortable being in positions of authority, and learning to reframe questions to finding the courage to lead and trying to explain why it has taken this long to get a woman to the White House. (To which my favorite response was because we dont have the political will to be a democracy.)

After dinner we adjourned to the piano bar for desserts and a reception of Minnesota womens, cultural and political organizations. There I was, doing my thing handing out literature and signing people up for Planned Parenthoods email list, when here comes Geena Davis stopping by my table while making the rounds. I was really impressed that she stuck around after her required commitment of the dinner discussion to talk to ordinary local women about their issues, their goals, what office theyre running for or which organization they represent. She is truly a lovely, articulate and gracious woman- who now has a Stand Up for Choice! sticker from me! If only I'd had my camera...

Now if only all my weekends could start out like that!
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SXSW 2006 in a nutshell

The long overdue commentary:

At this point it seems almost irrelevant to be blogging about SXSW, but it was such an incredible time I can't let it go unspoken about! It was serious rejuvenation and major refueling for my over-studied mind!

I flew to Austin on Wednesday, getting into town early enough to catch most of that night's fun. I still remember seeing 6th street for the first time- a complete whirlwind of excitement; there was a palpable buzz in the air, felt by the music industry people and music lovers alike. We tried to get in to see Jose Gonzalez, to no avail, so we hit up Emo's and saw Field Music, Serena Manesh, and Of Montreal, then we zipped over to Parish and finished out the night with Art Brut (who just played tonight at the 7th Street Entry, which I was unfortunately unable to go to!) Poured ourselves into bed around 3 am.

Thursday came all too quickly. We rose and were off seeking beverage and entertainment, which we found at our hometown radio station's gig on the 18th floor of the Capital Place hotel. In a nondescript conference room Mary Lucia was broadcasting live for all you back home to get in on the fun. We saw live "in studio" performances by Nicolai Dunger and one of this year's "buzz bands" Editors. She even asked front man Tom Smith about his mum's scrapbooking. Now that girl has balls to make the boy blush live on air! Gotta love her. Most cool of all was running into Eddie from Art Brut on a random street corner on our way to the next bit of fun. Very cool guy, told him we really enjoyed the show, made some small talk. Love it when the musicians are nice, normal people, not all bratty and full of themselves.

That evening's official SXSW shows were a raucous good time. We started off the night with a little alt country in the stylings of Carolyn Mark at Nuno's upstairs, then took a slow walk through downtown over to our next venue so we could catch Gomez and Nickle Creek. Before they went on we caught the end of Fiery Furnaces and Dresden Dolls. Never had so much fun at a concert as I did seeing Gomez and NC. Awesome performances, right up front feeling the music. Once again bedtime was very late.

Day three, Friday. Daytime extravaganza was killer. We dragged ourselves out of bed to make it to a 10:30 performance by Jose Gonzalez since we'd missed him on Wednesday night; it was definitely worth the lost sleep. After breakfast we hit the Pitchfork mag party for goodies and free beer and busted our guts laughing to the comedian hosting the event, Patton O. And what do you know, good ole Jose is playing there too! This guy just doesn't stop! Even better, I got him to call a girlfriend who wasn't able to make it and had really wanted to see him. She loved that voicemail! We found another party at the Mean-Eyed Cat where we celebrated St. Patty's day with free beer and bbq and the tunes of Dirty Pretty Things among others.

Friday night official performances were a bit disappointing. Tried to get in to see Editors, but all the buzz made that impossible; lines were down the block. So, we headed out to La Zona Rosa for the other buzz band, the Arctic Monkeys. I got in, only to be disappointed, so much so that I left halfway through and reunited with my group at the Pecan Street Ale House. We finished out the night with a fun performance by the London-based Irish band Neck.

The final day of SXSW came and we embraced it. It had been an overwhelming three nights, but we were determined to make the best of the last day and night. After loading up the PT cruiser for the long drive home, we headed into town. On the advice we'd received from fellow music lovers and SXSW attendees, we sought out the Yard Dog record store for (more!) free beer and lunch, and performances by Chantam County Line, Tres Chicas and Billy Bragg. Gotta love that! We chilled for a bit in this fun neighborhood known as South Congress, then hung out at the Spider House coffee shop where we were entertained with a performance by the Minneapolis-based band Birthday Suits. After some dinner, it was back downtown for one final night, sigh….

We kicked off the evening at Stubb's BBQ with a local Austin band called What Made Milwaukee Famous, who definitely know what they're doing. Might check them out this summer when they tour the Midwest. Following WMMF, we had the awesome (and incredibly sexy!) Rhett Miller of the Old 97's. What an experience that was, I finally know why people like to be feet away from the stage! After Rhett, we headed over to the Blender Bar to catch the Norwegian band, The Jessica Fletchers. And, finally, we finished out the experience at Exodus with a performance by Nine Black Alps.

After a quick stop at Whataburger, we hit the road for the l….o…..n…..g…. drive home back to Mpls.

Overall, it was a truly unique experienced. I got a crash course in indie rock, I met musicians, industry folk, and music lovers of all kinds, and had one of the best spring breaks of my life. Click here to read more...

packin' my bags...

In less than 24 hours I will be in Austin TX, brew in hand, listening to what will be only the beginning of some very kick-ass tunes at SXSW. What a week it has been, I'll spare you the details, but this little getaway is a long-awaited reprieve.... stay tuned for what promises to be a raucous good time!
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Grocery Store Adventures

Does anybody else have random conversations with other shoppers when they go to the grocery store, or is that a "Minnesota nice" phenomenon?Today, I actually had TWO conversations. One was in the produce section when I helped an elderly woman identify produce (she was trying to buy fennel.) Don't you just love that? I remember the first time I had to buy leeks-- I had no idea what they even looked like. The other one was in the bulk foods section where another shopper and I discussed oatmeal. I prefer quick oats, whereas he prefers the kind you have to cook. Then we talked about what we put in our oatmeal- blueberries for him, dried cranberries and vanilla for me. What a great idea he says- and runs off to go find some for himself. All this exchange happening in a matter of seconds. I may never see these two people again in my entire life, but who knows how our paths may have been altered by that brief encounter. To this day, I still tell the story about the woman in the Parisien grocery store six years ago who helped me buy ingredients to bake a birthday cake for a friend. I will never forget her kindness in what was then a frightening and unfamiliar world to me. In stark contrast, also at the store today was youngish guy with his iPod ear buds shoved in his ears, existing in his own mind, disconnected from the world, blocking other shoppers and completely oblivious to their requests to please let them pass by. I know it is only grocery shopping, but what a metaphor it could be for life. My experience brings a grin to my face- I love that kind of stuff, human interaction in its rawest form. I feel engaged in the world, a part of what is happening, rather than a passive observer. Then there is iPod man, stuck in his own little world, not even paying attention to what is going on (not to mention probably damaging his ears!) Which do you choose? Click here to read more...

Bring back the gridlock

So I was listening to Fresh Air on NPR (I know, such a nerd) and the guest made this comment about the good old days of government gridlock. huh, you say? His point was the fact that this president has yet to veto a single bill put before him by congress really makes you wonder. That's what balance of power is all about. This government was designed such that any one branch does not have absolute control. So, maybe gridlock is actually a sign of a healthy balanced government, when one party can't just "get away" with anything they want, and true bipartisan cooperation will actually happen. Click here to read more...